Women I Speak Truth : The Blog Corner by S.Nicole

Spring Edition**Opening Topic:

Do Women Sabotage their own Happiness? Females are so quick to blame a guy for a downfall of a relationship that they seldomly evaluate the part in which they played in the breakup. We all can point out many things men do wrong in a relationship but its time we start checking ourselves..We focus to much on what the men do or don't do that we leave no room for self growth... Few want to believe that we sabotage our relationships but whether we are aware of it or not it happens. When females are done wrong by someone they love, it becomes hard for them to see the good in other men, so we sabotage things to protect our hearts from getting broken. Most women are not aware that they may be doing it until its too late. Here are 3 ways you might be sabotaging your relationship.. 

1) Overcommunication- With all the twitter, facebook, Iming, and texting it might feel impossible to not communicate with your boyfriend or husband, at least indirectly. You may think its innocent but all that extra information about little details of your day only removes your alluring mystery. You have to reserve that mystery by not feeding the urge to check up on him everyday. Just text him at crucial points of your day and ditch all the extra stuff because I promise NO ONE CARES... 


2) You confuse hopes with realistic expectations - I often found it alot easier not to expect, because expectations often leads to disappointments, if you always keep a open mind about things its easier to be realistic. Ladies let say your birthday is coming up and you fantasized about the perfect getaway with you and your honey and it never happens. You will be ginunuely disappointed, mad even, if you do that alot that type of behavior can wreck havoc on your relationship. Warning : Romantic Comedies may be hazardous to your love life. Lastly,

3)You don't think you're hot-  Do you have a hard time accepting your body? are you uncomfortable being naked in front of your spouse? These seemingly minor insecurities  could be more dangerous than you realize.  Whether we're aware of this or not but poor self-esteem about your body can damage your sex life.  I'm sure there are many men who thinks their wives or girlfriend is beautiful but the women are just inhibited. To keep your insecurities from ruining your relationship you have to take the body bashing down to a minimum and learn how to feel sexy in your skin, start eluding confidence and I promise your love life and relationship will be on the right track...
Cute Quotes "Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up." James Baldwin

                                                                                     

                                                                           

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