I Speak Truth: Love Has It's Boundaries

The Boundary between friends and lovers

"Speak on What I've Done But Never Speak on What I Do For You"                                     -meek mill

                                                                 
As a guy its hard being  in a relationship.   Sometimes it may seem as if we are doing our best and still they complain.   Of course the women only tell their side of the story to their friends making you look like the bad guy. Is She ever satisfied? it seems as if she is never! Women Quotes" He did this to me"or "He don't do that" However sometimes there is so much more which you have to offer than what she mentions. Seems as though Sometimes ladies are quick to remember the bad times and that shouldn't be the case. The last thing a guy wants is for anyone else in their business. Girls are notorious for expressing their feelings more openly.  Even if Girls don't share their feelings directly with friends, they're more likely to post a status on facebook and twitter than guys. Guys more so repress their feelings and emotions about problems.  That'll never change!


How to quickly get on a Guys nerves...

• Post Relationship Statuses on Twitter...update your every feeling too why don't you!
• Tell that friend he doesn't like something about him
• Then after the previous two, apologize and act like it never happened or act as if the fact that it did happen was his fault.

Thats the boundary for males! Do not Post statuses or anything relevant to relationships on social networks. Because after everything is settled between the two, that update remains. You can't take it back. At least one other thirsty male following, saw that status and will prey on your relationship weaknesses. Ladies Why tell a friend your every problem? How bout trying to work it out amongst each other first. If two cannot find common ground on an argument then maybe there is no need to be together.  Otherwise evaluate what you have. If the Good times outweigh the bad... eliminate much of the complaining. 

Girlfriend's Boyfriend Boundaries 

Your girlfriends are usually the first people you turn to talk to when your man is acting up, when you need some advice you can always count on your girls to make things better. But is that always a good thing? Be aware that too much information about your relationship can cause friction on a friendship. How you might ask? If your constantly coming to your friends about the  crap your man has done to you and how he treats you bad, it can change the image of your man to your friends. A true friend wouldn't want you to settle for that so she automatically stops liking the guy. All for you to go right back to him, we accept your choice to go back, but you fell to mention to us all the good things he does. I say if your going to brag about how badly he treats you, for every bad thing tell us two good things. That way it will mellow things out and we wont dislike him as much.. Another boundary be careful about how much information you tell you girlfriends although they want what best for you. It doesn't always mean its the best for you. Once you start telling your girlfriends all your business they  naturally feel like their entitled to an opinion and that can get overwhelming and conflicting towards your judgement so keep it at a minimum. Lastly, never brag to you girlfriends because while all may seem happy for you, the reality of it is theres that one friend who is secretly praying for your downfall simply because of their lowkey jealousy. So Keep your relationships and your girlfriends on a tight leash and don't ever let the two conflict.

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