I Speak Truth: There is No Trust without Loyalty.

Trust Issues

by Princess

Trust: confident expectation of something
Loyalty: faithfulness, or adherence

Everywhere I turn lately it seems like relationships are being broken.  People who may have been friends for years, talk behind each other’s backs. People who claim to be involved in loving romantic relationships/ marriages are now involved in divorce because of infidelities and lies. Families splitting, businesses falling. All these things are no coincidence, our society now lacks trust because our generation lacks loyalty.

Relationships suffer the most because of a lack of loyalty. Our society influences people against being loyal. Men are encouraged to be proud of sleeping with multiple women at the same time. Women are encourage to be whores. It seems like the media glamorizes these things. It is now acceptable for a woman to be a whore and sleep around because our society calls it “sexual liberation.” Since when does having no class make you a woman? Real women remain faithful to their men, and they save and share their bodies with only their significant other. Real men don’t feel the need to boost their ego’s by trying to sleep with anything walking. A real man will cherish his woman, and will respect her like the rare prize she is (if she is). So what if all the latest rap songs encourage you to treat women like crap, and so what if people glamorize this “sexual liberation” nonsense. The real question at hand is through all the crap that we encounter in our daily lives, are you strong enough to remain loyal? Is your loyalty unquestionable, or strong enough to evoke trust in your significant other?

I Speak Truth: Love Has It's Boundaries

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"Speak on What I've Done But Never Speak on What I Do For You"                                     -meek mill

                                                                 
As a guy its hard being  in a relationship.   Sometimes it may seem as if we are doing our best and still they complain.   Of course the women only tell their side of the story to their friends making you look like the bad guy. Is She ever satisfied? it seems as if she is never! Women Quotes" He did this to me"or "He don't do that" However sometimes there is so much more which you have to offer than what she mentions. Seems as though Sometimes ladies are quick to remember the bad times and that shouldn't be the case. The last thing a guy wants is for anyone else in their business. Girls are notorious for expressing their feelings more openly.  Even if Girls don't share their feelings directly with friends, they're more likely to post a status on facebook and twitter than guys. Guys more so repress their feelings and emotions about problems.  That'll never change!


How to quickly get on a Guys nerves...

• Post Relationship Statuses on Twitter...update your every feeling too why don't you!
• Tell that friend he doesn't like something about him
• Then after the previous two, apologize and act like it never happened or act as if the fact that it did happen was his fault.

Thats the boundary for males! Do not Post statuses or anything relevant to relationships on social networks. Because after everything is settled between the two, that update remains. You can't take it back. At least one other thirsty male following, saw that status and will prey on your relationship weaknesses. Ladies Why tell a friend your every problem? How bout trying to work it out amongst each other first. If two cannot find common ground on an argument then maybe there is no need to be together.  Otherwise evaluate what you have. If the Good times outweigh the bad... eliminate much of the complaining. 

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